3 Tips for Manifesting Love: Guiding You In Finding Your True Love
The true story behind how I manifested my soulmate & how you can too.
We all want to experience love in our lives. When it comes to manifesting the ideal partner, having the right mindset is crucial for success. Personally, during a period of being single and wanting to find my soulmate, I dedicated six months to raising my vibration before getting back into dating… and I am so glad I did!
Raising your vibration involves intentionally creating happiness in your mindset and life, and making decisions that align with your true self. This was tricky for me, because I was so used to doing what I thought I was “supposed to do,” and wasn’t used to listening to my own heart. I felt guilty about prioritizing my own happiness, but I eventually came to realize that if I wasn’t going to do it, who was?
I came to understand that it was my responsibility to make myself happy, and I began to take that responsibility really seriously. (ironic right? Taking joy seriously!) I started doing the inner work of taming my inner-critic, re-evaluating my worthiness and doing things that made me happy like it was my JOB. I started to love life more and more, and I started to really like and eventually love myself. That self-love began to to feel like a warm loving hug that was always radiating from the inside out, and it has been the powerful force behind all of the manifesting power I have now created.
After this transformative period, I returned from a trip to Italy with my most radiant energy and serendipitously met my now-fiancé, soon-to-be-husband, Billy.
Our connection was instant, and our journey together has been filled with what I can only describe as magical love. He felt familiar to me, like I had always known deep in my heart that this type of love existed, and now it was finally here. He sees me more fully than anyone ever has, (besides my parents who have a pretty comprehensive read lol) and thinks I am just the best thing since four cheese pizza. (And this man LOVES cheese!) He listens to me and goes with me to the deep emotional places where I always felt alone, he soothes my soul, and loves me unconditionally. Also, we laugh a lot and are always having fun. This was exactly the dream relationship I wanted to manifest.
Through my experience of raising my vibration and attracting my perfect person, I have gained valuable insights into the art of manifesting love, and I am so excited to share them with you! 💖
Tip #1 – Embrace Self-Love For A Fulfilling Relationship
It's essential to prioritize self-love when manifesting a loving relationship. By focusing on loving yourself first, you send a powerful message to the universe that you are complete and happy on your own. The Universe likes that because it would rather give you your dream partner when you are in the best state to really appreciate and enjoy them, rather than to bring you someone to plug a hole in your happiness. (which we all know ends in unhappiness, right?) When you dedicate time to personal development and find joy in your own company, you elevate your energy and attract positive experiences into your life and people who match your best self, not your medium self.
In my journey towards manifesting love, I discovered that by making self-love my top priority, I was able to attract a partner who complimented my happiness and added to it. I wasn’t relying on love to make me happy anymore, I was just being happy as a new choice because I realized it was necessary for me to really enjoy my life. Billy entered my life when I had cultivated a deep sense of contentment within myself. Our relationship is so fun because we don’t expect the other one to do the work for us of making us happy- we just enjoy one another.
Remember, loving yourself is not selfish; it is a necessary foundation for building a fulfilling and harmonious relationship with a partner. When you radiate self-love, you invite love and abundance into your life, creating a strong and lasting connection with your ideal partner.
Tip #2 – Cultivate Inner Qualities To Attract Your Ideal Partner
Like attracts like. If you desire a partner who embodies qualities such as kindness, intelligence, creativity, humor, spiritual awareness, self-trust, and self-awareness, it's essential to reflect on these traits within yourself. Before attracting such a partner, it's crucial to work on trusting yourself and understanding your own identity.
Take a moment to contemplate the invisible qualities that would be appealing in a partner. Do they exude self-confidence? Do they possess a profound sense of faith that everything will fall into place? The characteristics you find attractive in your ideal partner are reflections of the personal growth you could be focusing on within yourself to become a compatible match for them.
By nurturing these inner qualities and aligning them with your true self, you not only enhance your own well-being but also create a magnetic energy that draws in the kind of partner you aspire to have in your life. Remember, the journey of self-improvement and self-discovery is a powerful tool for manifesting the love and connection you seek.
Tip #3 – Envision A Connection That Transcends Your Wildest Dreams
Picture a partner who embodies a perfect blend of kindness, intelligence, creativity, humor, spiritual awareness, self-trust, and self-awareness. Dare to dream big and be specific about the qualities that resonate with your deepest desires. Don’t think about what’s “reasonable” or what you are guessing is out there, just go with your dream reality.
Imagine a bond where you feel truly understood, supported, and cherished, where every moment is filled with profound connection and being together makes you both better. Visualize a relationship that not only fulfills your heart but also elevates your soul to new heights of love and happiness. 🌟
Imagine waking up in the morning feeling loved, cherished, and special. Picture yourself getting dressed for the day with a sense of joy and anticipation, knowing that you are deserving of the relationship of your dreams. By embracing the energy of already having that ideal partnership, you attract it into your life.
Manifest True Love By Loving Yourself First
When you prioritize self-love and radiate positivity, you create a magnetic force that draws in the love and connection you seek. Choose to feel loved and special now, and watch as the relationship you desire manifests effortlessly into your life.
Love is the best thing in the world. We all have a huge store of it inside of us, and the more we align with that reality, the more love can find us in every form. You deserve love, become it. 💗
